In May 2024, The New York Times Magazine published ‘Your Neighbors Are Retiring in Their 30s. Why Can’t You?’ by Amy X. Wang, a long look at the FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement.
The article, named
For the record, the piece is “Your Neighbors Are Retiring in Their 30s. Why Can’t You?” by Amy X. Wang, published in The New York Times Magazine in May 2024. Its main character is Allen Wong, who retired in his thirties and became the article’s case study in what happens after the money goal is met. Naming it matters because the article is worth reading in full, and because “a recent NYT article” stops being recent fast. This one earned its shelf life. Two years on, it remains one of the best mainstream accounts of the movement’s interior life.
The article’s real subject is not the math. The math of FIRE is simple and has been explained a thousand times. Its subject is the after: what it feels like to win the game in your thirties and discover the prize is an unstructured life and a social circle that is still at the office. That is the part the movement’s spreadsheets never modeled.
Despite a couple minor gripes, it’s a well written article that covers, not only the different types of (FIRE – LeanFIRE, CoastFIRE, FatFIRE), but also the reality of how lonely it is to do something most people aren’t doing.
Although I’m still happily spending my time reading, working on my house, exercising, napping, and doing just about whatever else I’m in the mood for, I can imagine it getting old after a longer period of time than what I’ve experienced.
I thought this passage captured that feeling well:
“It was as if I fast-forwarded through an entire movie, and the end credits are slowly rolling,” Wong told me recently, recalling his first, restless years in retirement. “There was nothing more to watch, and all my peers were still busy watching the movie that I already finished. After I traveled the world and had done just about every possible fun thing I could possibly do, I often found myself wondering, What now?”
Am I worried at all about how I might feel once I’ve “read all the books”? No. It’d be a small price to pay for the benefits and happiness I experience everyday.
I’m also OK with some temporary discomfort. I think discomfort or boredom a good signal that it’s time to change things up and try something new and that’s always exciting.
If you’re interested in FIRE, I suggest you visit the r/financialindependence subreddit. In the NY Times article, the author focuses on the r/fatFIRE subreddit which, at the time, had 455k members vs. 2.2MM.
(The author’s focus on r/fatFIRE was the minor gripe I mentioned at the top of this post)
Or, instead of Reddit, you can start following Mr. Money Mustache’s blog who is known as one of the most popular members of the FIRE movement. I suggest starting with this post titled: “The Shockingly Simple Math Behind Early Retirement”
The part the article gets right about money
Strip out the lifestyle coverage and the article makes one point that deserves to outlive the news cycle. The binding constraint on early retirement is not the withdrawal rate. It is community. The retirees who thrive are the ones who rebuild a social world on purpose: local FIRE groups, regular meetups, friendships with people on the same schedule. The ones who struggle are the ones who assumed freedom would be enough company.
That reframes the financial planning question. Saving 50 percent of your income buys the option to quit, but the option is only worth having if you know what you are quitting toward. Before you optimize the last decimal of your savings rate, sketch the week you actually want to live. If the sketch is blank, the money is not the problem you need to solve first.
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